When the thick, furry he-man fucked a woman for Jake Cruise’s site last week, got more offended than Kirk Cummings after we called him a tranny. Among the shopping list of indignancies: his co-star had ugly eyebrows, the sex was without a condom, Arpad must really be straight (he’s gay), Arpad must really be bi (he’s gay), Arpad must hate himself, Arpad must hate all of us! The commentors then borrowed from the gasping vocabulary of fundie wing-nutes by using annoying words like “boycott,” “vile” and “horrific.”
May I remind you that we’re talking about porn here? Here’s Arpad’s response to people who are pissy about pussy sex:
It was an adventure for me. If you don’t like it, then don’t watch it. One guy wrote to me saying that my scene was disappointing and started trashing pussies. I thought, well, then, why are you watching a site where all the sex has pussy in it?
Then there’s the backlash about the fact that he didn’t use a condom in this scene:
These people probably don’t know that in the straight industry you have to get tested constantly. But in the gay industry, there are no testing requirements. So in gay scenes, you have to assume that your partner is positive. That’s not so in the straight industry. My number one priority is my health.
Arpad is right. The straight industry is regulated and screened for STDs and HIV in a way that the gay industry is not. This makes it impossible to compare gay porn condom use with straight porn condom use.
When I asked Arpad where he thought most of the backlash was coming from, he said:
It gives them an excuse to trash pussy. They’re really, really against pussy, and they find every occasion to express it. I know all these guys might be fine with faghags and women in general, but they just can’t stand pussy, and they can’t stand to see someone they’re a fan of fucking pussy.
Yes — typing pussy that many times in a row made me queasy, and The Sword has taken a long-running stance against psycho-bitches, faghags and woo-girls in gay bars. But there’s a line to be drawn. After all, we entered into this world through a vagina, not a lubed-up asshole — and while you don’t have to watch vadge-porn, you also don’t need to feel personaly assaulted when a gay porn star decides to reintroduce his dick to the womb for a few experimental thrusts.
In conclusion, I asked Arpad to tell me the difference between fucking a vagina and an anus:
Pussy is definitely different from an ass. You don’t have the ring to fuck — the asshole itself — on your cock, so the pressure on your cock is the same the whole way through. And it’s wetter, a natural wet instead of lube, which feels different. But if I had to describe the difference with one word, I would say that pussy is softer.
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